18-9-24
Pranams to all,
On the other day in satsang, Amma firmly mentioned that “Not being judgmental is the first step towards merging into universal consciousness.”
I contemplated on that statement. Many times before, we have heard this from you, Amma. Earlier, we understood it as a noble virtue and nothing beyond that. But that day, when Amma said it was the first step, I realized there was something more to it. Upon contemplation, I concluded that when I am not judgmental, I do not carry any ill feelings. When I don’t carry ill feelings, I am not spreading any negative vibrations into the cosmos and thereby reducing my share of tamasik attributes. So, I will be spreading only love around me. Consequently, love begets love, thus making the world a better place to live in.
Now, after reading your message, Amma, I realize my reasoning forms a minuscule part in the larger scheme of explanations as designed for the cosmos by You, Amma.
The following statements of yours have far-reaching implications, more than I could have ever thought of:
“I keep reminding you about why not to be judgmental about others. Only a mother knows why her child is representing that role which is not acceptable to others. And it is painful for the mother when one child forgets its opportunity to concentrate on its own role and focuses on others, thinking of them as ignorant.“
In this Mrityu Loka, if a mother is confronted with a situation where her children are criticizing or flinging abuses at one another, the mother is pained because she understands the reasons for such behavior. She tries to pacify them and help them understand the circumstances that led to the situation. So too with our dear Amma. She is deeply pained by this attitude of ours, and if we have true devotion, we have no right to cause her pain.
As an offering to our dear Mother for Navratri this year, let us pledge to abide by Amma’s words to restore balance in the world, as Amma has so beautifully explained in the lines below:
“Everybody will have to cross that stage, and when you are ahead, you should be holding the guiding light for those who are suffering in darkness. And it is possible only when one concentrates on oneself, which leads to fewer thoughts, and as thoughts lessen, you rise in Sattvik urja. As Sattvik urja takes over, Tamasik urja comes back to a balanced state. As Tamasik is reduced to its limited state, the people who represent Tamasik urja will also start reducing. That is what will bring balance to the world.
Anuradha C
I now recognize that, just like a mother’s reminders, the process of reminding myself not to be judgmental is a part of my own yatra. It’s a practice that calls for patience, repetition, and staying calm at every possible opportunity, raising my Sattvik urja.
The analogy of holding the guiding light for those in darkness resonates with my responsibility not just to grow inwardly but also to support those who may still be struggling with their own challenges. I humbly recognize that by focusing inward, reducing my own thoughts, and cultivating calmness, I am not only transforming myself but also contributing to the balance of the world around me.
As a prayer with surrender:
Self-awareness: Continually reminding myself to focus on my own path without judging others, acknowledging that everyone is at a different stage of their journey.
Inner calm: Maintaining a peaceful state of mind, as this creates space for the rise of higher energy within me, leading to more clarity and compassion.
Balance: Recognizing the importance of harmonizing the different energies within me (Sattvik and Tamasik), knowing that this will naturally bring about balance within and around me.
Yes, Amma, let me water this plant so that the beautiful manifestation of lovely flowers and the much-needed vital fruits may be granted by this universe.
- Balaji